Although weight discrimination is
often impossible to overcome, there are certain techniques which
can help job-seekers:
Be
well-prepared. Learn all you can about the company, the job
requirements, the industry, and the interviewer before you walk in
the door.
Practice interview techniques.
They include: standing up straight, making and maintaining eye
contact, offering a firm handshake, and in general presenting
one's self as confident and competent.
Wear good quality clothing. Dress
appropriately for the job. If that means spending more than
thinner people do for clothes, consider it part of the cost of
marketing yourself.
Anticipate the interviewer's
possible issues, and address them directly. One good technique is
to point out that, in previous jobs, size has never interfered
with your ability to do any job. If the job involves physical
activity, discuss your fitness and your ability to do the work.
Mentioning your good health, healthful lifestyle (e.g. non-smoker)
and lack of absenteeism at previous jobs can go a long way toward
addressing a prospective employer's concerns. Another technique is
to point out positive aspects of your size. One woman got a job as
a counselor on a college campus by telling her interviewer that
she thought she could be a role model for the large-size college
women who might be having problems.
Write a follow-up letter thanking
the interviewer for their time. Repeat your good qualities in the
letter, reminding them that your size is no hindrance, and may be
an asset to you in this job.
Classes of people which
suffer discrimination often have to put in twice the effort others
do to succeed in the workplace. If you belong to more than one
oppressed group--such as women, African Americans, people with
disabilities, gays, lesbians, or fat people--then it may require
an even greater effort to receive the same treatment and the same
opportunities.
Some people consider hiring
situations to be opportunities for educating prospective employers
about weight prejudice. Others prefer to simply put their best
foot forward and overcome people's stereotypes on an individual,
personal level. Both attitudes are entirely valid.
You deserve to be treated
fairly and judged on your qualifications, your talents, and your
job performance. Weight discrimination, like any prejudice, is
wrong.